If she has indeed been manipulated, then time and space apart can help clear things up. As it is, looking at your situation initially, chances are there are already underlying issues in your relationship which you two have been too close to see, and that likely has been unaddressed for some time. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help you sort this out. Good luck!

Her being upset over the smallest of things could be her projecting her behaviour to you and/or of the guilt she felt when she cheated on you with someone else. Is she still with the other guy now? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at http://www.bradbrowning.com/coaching

That’s a toxic situation you’re in, man. In this case, your breakup may be a blessing in disguise! Consider moving on from this because she likely won’t change her bad attitude towards you and even if you do get back together with her, you’d end up getting dumped again and again anyway.

I begged for him not to go. I felt like an idiot after but I couldn’t stop myself. Literally had him in the phone for an hour after trying to get him to change his mind once I left his place. I begged that whole night. I left it for a few hours and then he relied later that night “I’m sorry Emily”

I didn’t contact him after that only few days later as my dog wasn’t well and I messaged him that. As he loved him a lot too. He called me back straight away and messaged me but I didn’t answer. Then he called me the next morning and I didn’t answer. I called him back later that night and we spoke. The convo was weird. I felt good in it I kept it together. Pretty much told him I just didn’t want it to end the way it did as it was in bad terms. He was talking to me but sounded miserable. I asked him how he was he said not good at all. We spoke a bit and I tried to get my closure admitting to him that I turned into someone who was not recognisable but I didn’t want to apologise for it as he also did too. He gave me a few signs like “so this is why you called me” and “it’s shit how we had to give it all up” and I totally let my cool trying to convince him I wasn’t done wreck. At the end he said he has to get off the phone. I then asked “have I upset you” he relied I just can’t listen to you being normal with me. But I’m glad your working on yourself that’s all I wanted and for the fights to stop. I then said” don’t you have anything you want to say as I finally built the courage to call you” and his like “no j can’t right now I’m not ready, I’ve given you enough closure.” And that was it. Please help 🙁

The bottom line here is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: http://y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til’ the end so you don’t end up missing the important points: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kJ1ybuFIHE

Hey Libby! Would you give up trying if you find out he indeed has a new girlfriend? Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: http://y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you’ll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the “no contact” rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at http://www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy