Comments on: Does “No Contact” Really Work To Get Your Ex Back? https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work Relationships, breakups, and dating guidance from the experts Wed, 24 Jul 2024 08:26:53 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Brad Browning https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-30851 Wed, 24 Jul 2024 08:26:53 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-30851 In reply to Atila Colak.

I’m sorry to hear that, but you really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here’s what may going through your ex’s mind and they seem they want nothing to do with you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sd2Lx8uEni8

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By: Atila Colak https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-30726 Fri, 12 Jul 2024 17:21:17 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-30726 I’ve been in rrlationship for 5 years broke up about 9months ago, last message she replied was in february, I begged all the time and askink for a second chance, then she blocked me everywhere, fb, instagram,whatsapp…evrywhere…except on viber….does no contact have hope to me even if she was clear that she wont reply me anymore in february? Last message I sent to her was 2 weeks ago…again begging…

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By: Brad Browning https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-28365 Thu, 28 Dec 2023 02:22:32 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-28365 In reply to Colin.

Depending on how nasty the breakup was, you may have to extend the no contact rule and not push it if you’re not getting a response from your ex. This goes regardless of whether or not the breakup was nasty. Also try to check what kind of text messages you’ve been sending. Being too needy or overly excited will only push an ex away. Subtlety is key. If you need my personal help on what to text/say to your ex, hire me as your coach. Good luck!

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By: Colin https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-28318 Fri, 22 Dec 2023 14:09:44 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-28318 In reply to Brad Browning.

Hi, I went through the 31 day no contact and then text as instructed, no reply so I sent 2 more a few days apart and the result is a couple of nasty texts which after sending she blocked me !! So method very definately has not worked!

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By: Brad Browning https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-28126 Wed, 06 Dec 2023 12:21:46 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-28126 In reply to Moose.

Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn’t, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQY4N04uvtA&t=4s AND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nfWRJRrnAs However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let’s take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

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By: Brad Browning https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-28118 Wed, 06 Dec 2023 04:41:44 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-28118 In reply to D.

you can leverage social media to your advantage. Here’s how: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1GpR5MApQk

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By: Moose https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-27651 Thu, 02 Nov 2023 16:08:06 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-27651 I was dating a girl for about 3 months and it was long distance. We went on 4 in person dates and would talk/text at a healthy pace during the time. She lived about 4 hours away. As I showed more interest or tried to take our relationship to another level rather than talking stage she wasnt as interested anymore. After our 4th in person date she called me after 5 days of silence and broke up with me. I have been in no contact since, it’s been about 3 months now. Is it worth even trying to contact? I have a feeling it’s over but I did really like her. I don’t like to brag but I bring a lot to the table and planned our dates from out of town. I don’t want to reach out if she doesn’t even appreciate the amount of effort I put in in our short time together. What should I do?

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By: Cd https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-24908 Mon, 13 Mar 2023 10:51:56 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-24908 Ex bf is not yet removing our photos on all social media and at home. He also changed his whatsapp profile pic only after i changed it. He also keep track of all my ig stories. Shall i continue with the no cobtact?

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By: D https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-24902 Sun, 12 Mar 2023 16:09:23 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-24902 If my ex keeps looking at my ig stories but hide his from me during no contact… shall i continue to post positive stories in this period?
He in the meantime is not deleting our photos on ig and still putting up our photo at home.

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By: Brad Browning https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/does-no-contact-strategy-work#comment-24197 Sun, 25 Dec 2022 09:04:33 +0000 https://www.lovelearnings.com/?p=13883#comment-24197 In reply to Em.

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: http://bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you’re interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at http://www.bradbrowning.com/coaching especially if there’s an available spot!

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