It’s an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it’s best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic “no contact” rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTjEAGJWTuA AND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDZrnNh8LOg

We are still sexually intimate.
Mixed signals but this is driving to the edge!!!

Since the break up we spoken at less every month but only surface level stuff and had only three telephone conversations and one meet up before I think she met her current bf. But when she made her new relationship official I pulled away stop contact except for organising when to pick her stuff up.

Then we didn’t talk for about four weeks until I told her about my dog dying. After that we spoke every day then she started talking about our PST relationship and how she hates my mum for interfering and this went on for two weekend, deleted off facebook and messaged me next day and conversation continue to the next day when I told her stop talking about the past she agreed and told me she got a new job first day working.

Since then messages have been far between then all of a sudden I the message accusing me of stalking her and stop texting it’s been 5 months and then she started talking about our relationship again. It’s been three no contact she has blocked me on WhatsApp, commented on a post I put up but I had see it through a mutual friend as all her tags pictures and likes are blocked and this week she changed her facebook profile picture with both of them. The only reason this happening is because

I’m taking a break from social media like I did back in April and pattern is the same where she kept changing WhatsApp profile picture to get a reaction out me.

For me I broke up with my guy last year. I never tried to get back with him though I still feel for him. As for him he drops chats here and there both warm and cold messages. Weirdly of late he started to send msges claiming back stuff he gave me/bought for me whilst we were still dating. He views my whastapp statuses daily.

What could this be. I am wondering why this strange behaviour especially after almost more than a year we broke up?