Comments on: Get Your Long Distance Ex Back: LDR Breakup Guide

By: Meryam

Meryam — Thu, 02 Apr 2020 07:02:08 +0000

Hi Brad,
I read your article about long distance exes… and your regular ex factor guide most definitely won’t apply.
My ex and I did in fact meet online by accident on fb. I reached out to him first. However , we spoke as friends for about 5 months until he asked me to fly over to another country where he had travelled for work- to meet him. I met him over a short weekend end of January and somehow we clicked and we also got very close the second night- we decided to be a couple and were a couple for a month… the whole of feb… but something went wrong somewhere and beginning March he asked me for space abruptly. Then he cut contact with me for nearly 2 weeks before returning to break things off over text. His reasons were not exactly clear and sounded cliche and odd. I initially tried speaking to him over the phone- where I asked him (not begged) although I said a few things I regret (I basically rambled on about what was my part in the breakup) . I asked if we could try again and he said he’d think about it and would I be willing to talk as friends. I said I didn’t think so and later that night, I wrote one last text to him- saying I had rethought it -and I believe I needed some space too. He could reach out if he wanted, I might not reply straightaway” . That was on the 14th of March and today is the 2nd of April.Based on this , do you think you can help me with your coaching?

By: Meryam

Meryam — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 01:59:11 +0000

Hi Brad,
I read your article about long distance exes… and your regular ex factor guide most definitely won’t apply.
My ex and I did in fact meet online by accident on fb. I reached out to him first. However , we spoke as friends for about 5 months until he asked me to fly over to another country where he had travelled for work- to meet him. I met him over a short weekend end of January and somehow we clicked and we also got very close the second night- we decided to be a couple and were a couple for a month… the whole of feb… but something went wrong somewhere and beginning March he asked me for space abruptly. Then he cut contact with me for nearly 2 weeks before returning to break things off. His reasons were not exactly clear and sounded cliche and odd. I initially tried speaking to him over the phone- where I asked him (not begged) although I said a few things I regret (I basically rambled on about what was my part in the breakup) . I asked if we could try again and he said he’d think about it and would I be willing to talk as friends. I said I didn’t think so and later that night, I wrote one last text to him- saying I had rethought it -and I believe I needed some space too. He could reach out if he wanted, I might not reply straightaway” . That was on the 14th of March and today is the 31st.Based on this , do you think you can help me with your coaching?

By: Richard santa cruz

Richard santa cruz — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 19:24:47 +0000

Hello my name is Richard Santa Cruz i am 42 years old i have bern in my relationship for 14 years and she has left me. It is totally my fault too. She had given so many chances throughout our relationship, although she does not believe me of this but i never once cheated on her ever but what my problem was lying ang staying out all night using drugs. I would stay out all night for the reason to sell drugs. To make money for the reason at the time i was not working and it did make me money. She was the perfect woman for me i never loved anyone the way i love her i done things with her in the bed that i had never done or do with anyone else i cant even see myself being with someone else i know now this time i truly lost her and there is nothing i can do to change her mind i now clean off of drugs but she doesn’t care anymore im on social security disability because i had a stroke for the reason. I used too much drugs and she hates me for that im emailing you for the reason because i have no one to talk to and im. Going through so much pain i do not know what to do. She is so beautiful it terrifies me that she will find someone new quickly because there is no man that would not want her so please give me some advice what to do and what not to do
Thank you,
Richard Santa Cruz