Sorry to hear that. How long has it been going on? You ought to take action. Apply the tips from this vid and choose a path on where your marriage is going, once and for all: How to Confront a Cheating Spouse but if you need to talk in-depth about your situation where I can guide you on a regular basis, as well as see if there’s anything more for you to do, hire me as your coach via my coaching program. Talk soon?

Hi there! Emotions are something that can’t be taught or forced onto someone. Judging by the situation, it seems like you both let time and the natural course of things do its job, yeah? Also how long has it been since you two broke up? You can’t be in the no contact rule while trying to contact your ex at the same time. Sorry, but this is too complex for me to properly respond here and I need more details about your situation, so consider hiring me as your coach so I can help you decide what the next best step is, okay? Take care!

Hi! Thanks for sharing. Sorry to hear you’re going through this. Yeah, refrain from sending a letter. 4 years is quite a long time to be in a relationship with someone. I know the breakup still hurts and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7zp7SFbeCRU&t=3s but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide. Take care!

3.5 years is more than the usual time people spend on a rebound relationship. In other words, I doubt the relationship you had with her was a rebound. But was the comparison in your favour or is it with her current beau? How are the other aspects of your relationship? Is it possible that your goals don’t align for the future? Start by watching this video as this will help you grow: Was The Breakup Really My Fault? It’s tough to tell for sure whether you should move on for good or just give her space at this point and although I’d like to offer more tips, there’s simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for my coaching program if you want to talk at length about your situation and uncover stuff you may not have realized in your relationship. Hope to talk to you soon!

I’m sorry to hear that, but you really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here’s what may going through your ex’s mind and they seem they want nothing to do with you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sd2Lx8uEni8