This is really bad advice sir. To the lady who’s best friend passed the gentleman’s emotional state may have been to frustrated out of genuine compassion and admiration for young lady causing him more pain than he could muster being unable to support her needs at the time leaving him the only choice but to leave the relationship. That may be the reason or not understanding grief due to perhaps lack of experience lucky him, and not wanting too high tailed it, there fore he’s a genuine Dick for leaving and she’s better off..idk these peoples story.. nonetheless there’s two sides, two views.. communication, comprise, please never expect anything cause you’ll set yourself up for disappointment that I promise..Sir you know being yourself is what attracted them to each other … Now don’t ever stop being real, talk, be honest and build trust..mostly find one who likes you…no games..Men are sweet and emotional beings be kind to them and know we all like to be alone at times and it’s a good thing. Sir, Brad this is horrible advice, I’m sorry to say.

I’m sorry that you lost someone very special to you, grief is a tough one yet also one that is suffered with no rules, I wish you all the support you need with that so you may embrace the previous moments you and your best friend had with a smile instead of a year one day a know they (spirit) is always connected to you so you will never be alone. As far as the gentleman goes, two things, 1) it may have pained him to see you so hurt therefore not know how or if he could help you with what you are experiencing, idk his story however if he felt lost with your grief his emotional state may have been more of frustration than anything. It wasn’t you hon he had to walk cause he could help you, not that he didn’t want to. 2) Some people don’t understand grief and he was a dick and be happy he’s gone!
With those two options decipher who left you..a good man or one that couldn’t support you. Idk him or his story only you do…there are two people in a relationship, two sides to a story, two views we should look at cause comprise, communication, and open minded perspective really helps in situations like these ..it’s always about us/me…
Take care of yourself ❤️….

By begging, it shows how you’re not respecting your ex’s need for space and time at the moment. Can’t you see? In other words, you’re making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You’d increase your chances of getting your ex back if you’ve got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don’t let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZ6niCLUU6E The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I’ve made numerous videos about the “no contact” rule and why it’s important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1U_IOm8ofFo&t=1s