Comments on: Can You Save Your Marriage Alone (Without Your Spouse)?

By: prisca

prisca — Tue, 23 Aug 2022 21:03:13 +0000

I caught my husband with his ex girlfriend. Recently, he has been distant unloving and disrespectful towards me. I had a feeling he was going to leave me in no time and he later did this was After 3 years of marriage, my husband left me and never returned.

By: Steve h

Steve h — Thu, 21 Jul 2022 14:28:44 +0000

My wife left be 5 weeks ago and it’s been complete turmoil ever since. Before, we bickered etc but these past 5 weeks we’ve said some things I’d never have imaged being said to one another. I love her with all my heart. She has post natal depression that’s taken over. Police are involved now too and it’s all so overwhelming. We’re not no longer in touch at all. I miss her so much but not contacting each other is probably for the best. It’s killing me all of this I miss her so much. I fear what’s happened will have no way of going back. I think she’s gone and it’s breaking my heart. 😢

By: Odette

Odette — Thu, 05 Nov 2020 21:18:31 +0000

I’m in a bit of the same situation as JonBovi, my husband is in a relationship with a much older woman and has been living elsewhere since December last year. After 39 years together, of which 35 years married, it was suddenly over with him, his excuse was that he didn’t care about me for years. I still love him dearly and miss him a lot. He is not himself and behaves the opposite of what he always stood for and believed in. He’s never been so aloof and ugly to me. He has filed for divorce and wants everything sorted out very quickly. I have already read and tried everything and don’t really know what else I can do to get it back?
Can someone please help and advise me.
Greetings Odette

By: Cebisile

Cebisile — Mon, 25 May 2020 05:13:13 +0000

Thank you this will be helpful as my spouse does not see that we are going down . I will use this advise wisely

By: JonBovi

JonBovi — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 09:58:22 +0000

Hi Brad, i was subscribes the mend marriage course.
Its works by control my emotion to be as calm as I can.
We are not argue each other anymore. We can communicate each other. But my wife still need us to separate. I like to agree her decision because wont she feel I refuse her decision for separation. Its happen that she want to divorce when the the time Im begging her.
She said maybe when separate, she will think to back to my life. Should I move out? i don’t want her to move, because there a lot to do especially money, and she is women instead i left out the house.
Now we are no trouble, I can hug her every morning before go to work. Only we slept separate since she said, she won’t to responsible as wife. My marriage problem like freezing about 10months. Deep in my heart, she want to save our marriage but she wont to say or act dat. I can feel the difference before and after I applied your advise on the book.
Please help Brad if should I move and start pack my thing?
We have a son that maid take care him at our house now.

By: Stephanie van Voore

Stephanie van Voore — Thu, 14 Nov 2019 20:56:54 +0000

I really want my husband back.He moved to his parents after an arguement 26 Sept.I found out in May that he is having an affair with my friend but both of them are still denying the affair.Their is so much avidence from me and the children and my family and other people but he and his parents are blaming us for messing up the marriage.

By: Clay Morgan

Clay Morgan — Sat, 18 May 2019 20:19:16 +0000

Just reading this was helpful because I sure want my wife back. I know we can work it out and admit that I was not listening to her. Thanks for the insights.