The Most Romantic Pick Up Line Ever
By Derek Lamont
Dating & Pickup Coach
So what’s the most romantic pick up line in the world?
Listen. Pick up lines are becoming a little obsolete in the world of seduction. Why you ask? Because hot girls are expecting pick up lines. They’re grossly overrated. I know some guys that can pick women up by barely saying a word.
It doesn’t matter much how you open. One of my best friends (who’s extremely gifted with women) said to me one time that he picked up a chick just by fingering her.
Cheesy pick up lines obviously don’t work
How’s that for romantic?
I hate to break it to you guys out there who love the romance — romantic pick up lines don’t work!
They’re cheesy, stupid, and often boring lines just make you seem really desperate. Unless you’re an extremely good looking guy, romantic pick up lines don’t work.
And, to be honest, if you’re good looking, it doesn’t even matter what you say a lot of the time.
That’s not to say that being romantic isn’t important (because it is), but opening up with romance is something that should only be saved for the movies.
Keep It Simple, Honest
So what do you say?
When you see a girl, what’s an effective pick up line that almost always works?
Drum roll, please …
How about “Hi!” followed by an open ended question about the venue. How’s that for simple? Here’s the thing — pick up lines are flawed. When a girl hears a pick up line, she’s secretly thinking, “F*ck off. I don’t have time for this.”
You need to appear attractive first before you get into the flirting. So just introducing yourself first and asking an open ended question doesn’t pose a threat at all.
You can even include what is known as a “false time constraint” by saying you have to “go in a second.” This will further prove to her that you’re not really interested in picking her up at all. How’s that for being inconspicuous.
Get a Good Conversation Going, Man
Your goal at the very beginning of an interaction should be simple, sweet, and get a good conversation going. Once that happens and you sense that she’s into you, then you can start dropping flirty lines here and there. That’s when you can start touching her. And that’s when she’ll be receptive to your cheesy romantic stuff.
Trust me! I’ve been through this!
So the next time you’re at super market in the frozen section and you see a really hot girl, don’t ask her:
“Did it hurt?”
“Did what hurt?”
“When you fell out of heaven. Did it hurt?”
Terrible. Epic fail.
Derek Lamont
Derek Lamont, BSc, is an experienced dating coach and veteran pickup artist. In addition to helping men around the world attract women, he's also the author of an award-winning seduction system. Through his best-selling Online Pickup Secrets program, Derek has helped thousands of men from around the world use online dating and social media websites to find love and live “happily ever after”.