5 Easy Ways To Make Her Heart Melt

Whether you’re in trouble (uh oh!) or just want to get into her good books, there’s never a bad time to go “above and beyond” to win a few brownie points with the special lady in your life.

Now, while it is true that all women love diamonds and fancy dinner dates, that’s not the way to her heart. It’s the little things that you do for her — the things that separate you from the rest of the pack — that will really melt her heart.

So, if you’re in need of brownie points, here’s five easy ways to score some:

1. Leave Love Notes

See? I told you these would be simple, easy things you can do to make her smile from ear to ear.  Write a few short love notes, perhaps include some photos of you together, or cut-out hearts / kisses / etc., and leave them in places where she’ll find them later:  under her pillow, on the driver’s seat of her car, in the cutlery drawer, etc.

If you want to really push the envelope, put a chocolate or flower along with each note.

2. Give Her a Massage (Without Her Asking for It!)

Even if you’re not exactly a professional masseuse, you can still give a half-decent massage if you listen to her and keep at it for long enough.  She’ll be extremely thankful, and might just repay the favor in some other way! 😉

3. Publicly Brag About Her

You should probably feel  the need to do this occasionally anyway, but if you openly tell others how awesome your girl is while she’s present, there’s no way she can avoid cracking a smile.  She might blush, but inside, her heart will indeed be melting.

4. Do Her Chores

Maybe you’re in charge of mowing the lawn, washing the dishes and mopping the floors. But that means she’s left with laundry, cooking, vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, etc.

If you call in sick or take a one-day mid-week vacation simply to stay home and take care of all the chores she’ll normally do, she’ll be forever grateful — and she’ll know how much she means to you!

5. Give Her a Special Day

I know the thought of spending a day shoe shopping or watching romantic comedies may not be too appealing, but your wife or girlfriend would absolutely love the chance to do whatever she wants on a “date day.”

Arrange it in advance and make sure that she truly does get to pick your schedule for the day!

Well, that wasn’t so hard, was it guys?  Take the time to do one of these five small little things each month for the next while, and you’ll have her head over heels in love for you.

Any other ideas? Share them in the comments section below!

Jessica Raymond

Jessica Raymond, BSc, is LoveLearnings senior editor. As a relationship coach, Jessica has helped hundreds of men and women achieve their relationship dreams. Whether it’s finding your one true love or simply charming someone on a date, Jessica's got your back! In her articles, she reveals little-known, psychological tips that will make even the coldest person chase you around like a little puppy.