Comments on: How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

By: Brad Browning

Brad Browning — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 09:43:44 +0000

In reply to Akshar.

Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit especially if this was a predominantly long distance relationship. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn’t, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQY4N04uvtA&t=4s AND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nfWRJRrnAs However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let’s take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

By: Akshar

Akshar — Wed, 06 Apr 2022 17:35:48 +0000

Hi,
Me and my boyfriend are in 6years of love.
We both are in aboard but different countries.From the beginning till now we are in long distance relationship only. But little bit of contravacy are coming nowadays. He is searching for job right now because of that his attention is missing but I want to talk to him daily ..If he talks also he’ll shout at me.Please help me how to make him cool and have a interesting conversation with him which is comfortable at this situation.

By: abdollah

abdollah — Thu, 30 Aug 2018 02:00:44 +0000

hey brad i’ve met my girlfriend in my country for the first time we didn’t spend enough time together about three days and then she had to go back to her county we loved each other the first weeks of the long distance relactionship was so good she told me that she works a three jobs and she is so busy and she can’t talk to me everyday and she can’t call only once a week as the days passes by i the relaction was dying i told her we need to make a call and talk she told she want to talk to me too and she said it’s gonna be sad i knew what she what to say … beark up i felt so bad and lost because i loved her so much after a day we made a call and she told me that she can’t be my girlfriend and she told me because she don’t want to be a bad girlfriend for me because she won’t be a good girlfriend but i said i still want no matter what she was telling me a bunch of excuses and i said i don’t care about all this i trust you and we can make it work she said i don’t think so i tried to prove to her we can but she keep saying we can’t ..after day we had a funny conversaction and i told her i need to call and during the call i told her i’ll put you back in your place in heart she said i’m worried but i said don’t worry you are with me and yo don’t need to worry about anything after about a week she starts to respond late and i noticed the relactionship dying again because she wasn’t able to call or to talk a lot we made a call again and i asked her doyou wanna stay with me she said i like you a lot and i love talking to you but i don’t wanna try to make it work know we can be friend and if i’ll come back to morocco i’ll be your girlfriend and i said i never want you to be my friend she said you have to deside. but what i know who really love you he will always love you we have been in this relactionship about month and half now i really love her and i really want her but i know what to do sometimes i start thinking about getting an other girls because i am always the one who text first and trying to keep this going i felt bored and like giving up because she should try to make it work too not only me

By: Brad Browning

Brad Browning — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 02:49:21 +0000

In reply to Susanna. It looks like life is taking you in two different directions at this stage, especially with College and what it entails. So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? If you'd want to still try to get him back, though, then watch this to help you out, though: How To Get Your Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship Take care!

By: Susanna

Susanna — Thu, 28 Dec 2017 06:29:05 +0000

Hi Brad, my boyfriend is in university 2 hrs away first year and I am in my last year of high school. We talked about plans for the future before the summer and everything was beautiful until he went to university. Suddenly, he had no time for me and I always felt taken for granted. Our in-person dates are always fun, but he says small moments like this aren’t the whole picture. Then he continues to say that my first relationship shouldn’t be too serious, when he was the one who said he’d like to have kids with me in the future and made a bucket list of things we wanted to do together. He is also a horny guy, so I think he wants to get action without feeling guilty of having a gf while at uni. I’ve initiated NC right that day, and he messaged and called me if I was okay that night which I ignored. At this point, I don’t even know if there is any fixing. I really love him and I’m sure he feels the same. But he likes to follow logic, not his heart; and logic is that we shouldn’t be a couple though he did want to remain friends.

By: Brad Browning

Brad Browning — Sun, 24 Dec 2017 02:17:31 +0000

In reply to Anon. Hi there! Sorry to hear that. The distance has clearly taken its toll on here and your ex could be rebounding and the other was providing the physical companionship which you couldn't offer at the moment. Watch and apply the pointers here first: How to Get Your Ex Back If You Were In A Long Distance Relationship and How To Get Your Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship. Take care!

By: Anon

Anon — Fri, 22 Dec 2017 20:14:58 +0000

Hi. Please help me it’s urgent. My boyfriend and I have been dating since school that is 2 years back. But after like 4 months of our relationship I graduated n had to move. So I ended up in anew city and as he is a junior he stayed behind. There were complications and we broke up few times until he broke up with me for a different girl. But they lasted for like a week and after that we met n stayed together for few days(no sex). Again I went back to the city I was living in. After that we broke up again for whatever reason. After 5 months we patched up. Everything was fine until he was caught up with a girl from his class.. But this girl had a boyfriend so my guy called quit with her. Now we are together again to start everything fresh. Even I’ve told him I’d forgive him but from time to time I keep asking about the girl and I learned that they were really close together. For the two weeks they were even living together with sex involved. And now he is acting weird. I asked him and he told me that he feels guilty to me and that he needs time to be alone and stuff. What am I supposed to do? Cause he said he doesn’t like it when I keep asking about all these and he feels unworthy to have me. He said even I will be thinking about this only so.. But why did he decide to patch up with me in the first place? Is it because he felt he loved me but when we patched up did he realise I was not the one he was looking for anymore? I feel like I can’t even compare our love anymore with the love they had cos they had sex so they must be really connected n stuff right? I feel like the 2 years we were together is nothing now.. compared to the 2 weeks he was with her..What should I do? He said he needs time to think.. does this mean he is totally in love with that girl? And if I wait and later on he still is confused.. what should I do ? I really love him and I’ve forgiven him.. even if I need to I’ll stop asking questions about them.. pls help

By: Raju

Raju — Sat, 17 Jun 2017 05:05:19 +0000

In reply to Brad Browning. Thank you, Brad. You take care.

By: Brad Browning

Brad Browning — Sat, 17 Jun 2017 00:12:23 +0000

In reply to Raju. You have to be on top of your game, man. The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let him/her feel what it's like not to have you in his/her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? You risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: How To Make Your Ex Miss You.

By: Raju

Raju — Fri, 16 Jun 2017 11:56:07 +0000

In reply to Brad Browning.

Thank you for your reply, Brad!
However now she’s made it clear that she cannot be in a relationship. She wants to be friends and asks me not to stop talking to her. How can I carry on with things hereafter to keep this going? She’s leaving the country soon. Working on the 30 days NCR. But, sooner intime, I don’t know if I’ll be able to see her. That’s why all this is so confusing! I hope you understand.

Thanks again man:D
Take care.